The ex left a message on my brother’s voicemail. Something about cancer research and needing to contact my brother-in-law who does that.

The ironic thing is that I’ve been having dreams about her all week! I told her to stay out of my life and away from my family.

Then I found out that this was not the first time this has happened. Do I let sleeping dogs lie, since it has been 4 years since the split?

It was a rather long relationship, lots of strong feelings. Do I interact or do I ignore? I’ve dated sporadically since. Nothing works out.